THoUghT PaRaDIse

well i am a really social person as such, i tend to make friends fast and often when making friends atleast all my guy friends are obsessed with getting a girlfriend.so more or less when trying to know a person i often run this wierd quiz session of mine and theres this question what attributes do you look for in u're partner..?and the answer more or less lies in the same criteria and the criteria being she should be beautiful.and well same goes for the girls they want a handsome boyfriend.
when asked how do u define beauty probably i havent as yet come across any person who thinks beauty includes nature,character or  purity of the heart, its always looks.i kinda feel wierd when i listen to this because earlier people didnt look at the beauty thing from this aspect , i mean just because some1 doesnt have the looks does that characterise him/her as an ugly person and does that mean that factors like how a person is dont really matter.

well then i think probably every person who would want true love in his/her life should probably first check his or her face in the mirror.I kinda fail to understand how a person is responsible for his/her own looks.In many countries black people are considered beautiful and in others they are loathed or considered ugly.In china people actually use a lot of bleach so there skin can become pale which to them is beautiful and in countries like India people actually go to beaches to get tanned.
I kinda fail to understand if the true value of beauty is only about it being skin deep.The peacock is beautiful because it looks beautiful, but what about the koyal(bird) well it doesnt exactly look beautiful but it is infact but here because it has a beautiful voice.

I really think people today should broaden there perspective of the word beautiful.Everything today is beautiful , but beautiful to the person who wants to see it that way.Like its said - beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

To most people what i write could seem more like lectures and stuff, but i think in day to day life we often fail to notice a lot of things which could make a big difference in our lives, because what you give is what you get and i think if u set an example for people other people would follow and thus things could be better.

Maybe racism is something that started with a small spark and grew this big. I mean think of it if u're black u're beautiful for people in countries where its considered in general as a beautiful thing.but in other places white is what is beautiful.SO in places where a majority of whites exsist black isnt beautiful and thats where the colour difference arises.
See thats why people say small things make big differences.

Well this is one of the days am really thinking a lot.A variety of mixed emotions all involving love,friendship,success, failure,happiness etc.I am kinda confused . I am 20 years old and till yet i aint able to figure out the true meaning of a lot of words.Well i know the dictionary has the meaning but i mean although a few things i have experienced but as yet i am not really sure what they mean.
I mean as a CAT aspirant(which i was last yr) i always heard this word SUCCESS a lot.But every person has a different definition to this word.I really wanna know what it actually means.I mean is Success all about earning lot of money or success all about happiness or is it getting you're love because as per me i dont think any one has ever been success , i dont think there is a single person in this world who would be content and happy in every way i mean if someone has money maybe they dont have that happiness or if someone has happiness maybe they dont have the money and without money how can one be happy or is it a mixture of both.So what holds more priority money or happiness.Every elderly person i meet asks me have you got a plan, what does success mean to you , philosophically i guess sucess to me would be hapiness + money + love but is it literally possible.I mean i am not really sure if i make any sense but i think evry person is different in his/her own ways and evry person thus must be having a different choice of sucess but then how does one know what to them would mean sucess.Is getting 80% aggregate when u thought u would get 75% in you're graduation success..? Or is being with the person you love success? or is success only measured in monetary terms.Well thats one aspect to it. WOt About LOVe? Is going crazy for someone you like LOVE?? or what exactly is love.Definately by now every1 would have been in a relationship so how does one find out what love is???
There are so many questions that are unanswered and why is it that we dont have answers to them..? and when does and how does one find answers to them.???

I guess maybe if someone thought about it even they'd be as confused as i am.Unless some1s really sorted...

In this whole confusion i see only one way out and that is if humans had the answers to all the questions in life maybe life would be really boring and maybe if we knew evrytyn den we'd be god or maybe then there would not be a space for god to exsists.Maybe the true meaning of life really lies in small little things that go unnoticed in everyday life.Maybe this all is a plan , every person comes into this world with a plan , a plan unknown to him/her , a plan all worked out by some invisible power that although surrounds us but we cannot see it.So there comes only one word which can lead us to the true motives , the true meaning of life and that is -----------------------FAITH.

(p.s Faith is not only about believing in god its about believing in you're self , in a power that resides within you)

15th August 1947, a day of pride and honour for each and every person who classifies himself as an Indian,As it Is celebrated as the day of India's Independence.

Independence,freedom,aazadi there are many terms that i can classify having the same meaning, the meaning of freedom,of release.But is it only a days celebration, only a formality for people, well i know people might think why i am so negative but truely am an optimist, a well wisher, a helper and i play many other roles in my day to day life.

Just a day before independence i see people buying the Indian flag in various forms like stickers, pins and many in the exact flag manner & just the next day after 15th august i see flags lying on the ground all torn and tattered, and people stepping on the flag, and infact i even see these candy filled flags comming now of which the kids eat of the candy and dump the flag into the dustbin. Well not every Indian must be having the spirit, the true spirit to fight for his country but i think for the people who actually fought for this independence, for those who didnt think even once for there own and fought for the common good, for those who gave there lives for this holy purpose it certainly is a matter of disrespect it is an anniversary of indian independence but people today are enjoying freedom at every instance , every day then why is it so difficult to not step on the flag, and not buy a flag only for the sake of the candy in it.

There can be even better ways of celebrating this independence day , maybe visit a village , or maybe make donations for a nobel cause, or maybe the money you spend on buying flags that you end of dumping the next day you can feed the hungry with it, even vollentiearing for helping in a hospital or maybe entertaining children in a blind school. Why is it that we celebrate independence for our ownself whereas we as such have made no contribution in it.

i even see really rich people travelling in there A.C cars and honking away to glory , because they have the independence to do so, people in big cars talking on the phone while driving hitting someone and not bothering to help after all they have independence, in the name of unity people start up donation camps and keep that money for there own good. but i definately do not think it is this independence we are actually referring to, i do not think it is this unity that we want.

I think every Indian should make an effort to make this a better place to live in and this can be done with the help of that independence.I think today we are not fighting against the british but we sure are fightin against a lot of issues the top most being the government and then terrorism.This is where we need to use terms like independence and Unity.

Jai Hind !!! Jai bharat..!!!

Its Been Lyk 3 yrs almost but the memories of the place i consider as Heaven on Earth lie clear in my mind.The beauty of the building that always reminded me of the taj mahal, the clear marbel like a palace built for someone , well definately it is heaven on earth my school The Daly College,Indore.After spending my life's most important 12 years in DC(short form for Daly College) i guess it was practically impossible to dream about a life so harsh so very different from what i had lived in school.The early morning blues followed by the long bus journey from home to school,the crispy well ironed school uniform and the chirpy landing at school, the walk to the classroom followed by lotssa gossip and den the morning line up which was always followed by grumbling which arose due to the boring mornin assembly everything was just so perfect and just so sweet.All this makes me nostalgic. Everyone seemed so innocent but yet so notorious.

Standing at this point in life i never really thought i'd want school life to return so desperately.Everything was so perfect.It kinda seemed like bruised knees are always better than broken hearts.The teachers about whom so much was said, the desks we used to fondly clean like it was our own private and personal space and the locks of which were broken by unidentified people and all the hidden food articles would disappear, well how i miss just everything about school. The really tasty food of the DC mess specially the chicken.This reminds me that usually on mondays everyone used to ditch god and look towards getting the leg piece in the chicken and so while the prayer was said everyones eyes used to be glued to the chicken bowl.

The pranks, the cheering, the geering everything is missed so much ...never thought world outside DC was so different so much like a tragic story where words like trust, faith, friendship, humanity meant practically nothing and all people thought was how to get there job done by hook or by crook.I remember we had studied a poem ,i'm nt too sure about the name but it was about how people tend to live an emotionless life , that really falls so true for the world we live in, then we were taught to help others, to care for people and the world we live in seems so different and so secluded from all these feelings . Seems like people just live and live and live but at some instance have forgotten what it means to live.

whenever i move out and someone new to me gets to know that i am a dalian they form a view that i am a very spoilt person all credits to a lot of people who think being a dalian gives them a right to be rude to throw money and keeps them high above others. But actually Daly College really is like heaven on earth having the most amazing campus , the most loving teachers and everything just so perfect that even if someone wants they can never forget DC.

i guess there arent words to express how much i treasure my school,the time spent there the friends i had , not a day goes without thinking about the amount i used to grumble abt things at school like the early line ups,the long school hours,the 8 lectures in a day , the uniform of which everything i miss now ...really wish someone pinched me and i would wake up to find the same people the same teachers shouting for sleepin in class but then life moves on doesnt it ..i guess am just very grateful to my parents that i got to go to DC and to all those people who have made a difference in my life from my teachers to my friends......i guess i can never stop writing about my school the late evening functions ,the yummy samosas,the teachers day celebrations,the football grounds,the busy people ,....practically like a smaller world in a larger one....not to forget the cultural feast the most awaitied cultural feast the speciality of the doon guyz for the gurlz and the mayo and rkc gurls for the guyz..... the mixing of so many students the cultural events the excitement on winning and not to forget the yummy food of the DC mess ..... there really isnt an end to the amount i can write but i guess am at a loss of words ..... so tats all for now just the way i started my life at DC the same way am starting my blog with a post of the place i consider above eveything.